given that something is said about ‘it’ and that saying something about ‘it’ is in some way a demonstration of ‘it’ or showing of ‘it’ in a visually similar array or arrangement and given that ‘needing one’s help’ or ‘helping one find it’ is in fact a demonstration or a demonstration of fact of another sort or kind that is not so different but still somewhere different than a saying about ‘it’ given all of that the little bit of ‘me’ lodged in or placed somewhere in ‘you’ or ‘you’ or ‘you’ is in fact a non-demonstrable big-ness or large-ness the extent of which is like a swimming pool or over-sized hot tub that is always behind you or over your shoulder and that you cannot see but may be able to demonstrate may possibly be able to demonstrate